Custody is complicated, and you need a lawyer on your
side. This is the single most important
aspect to any divorce proceeding because you have to live with the results
every day until your child turns eighteen.
Unlike a home or a car that you can move on from, the custody
arrangement you share with your spouse ties you to that person, regardless of
whether or not you want to be.
We understand that in a divorce emotions are high, and it
can be difficult to think clearly and to strategies. That is where we come in. We can listen to your goals and create a
strategy to help you achieve them. This
includes what needs to be done before you ever set foot in a courtroom. By creating and implementing a clear strategy,
you will be more likely to receive the custody arrangement that you desire.
As your lawyer, there is a lot of strategy that goes into
preparing for your divorce trial.
Evidence needs to be gathered that shows how involved of a parent you
are and why you should be awarded the custody arrangements you are
requested. Times have changed and judges
no longer award custody to the mother, simply because she is the mother. Both parties have an equal chance and many
times the only thing in your favor is a good legal strategy. We understand the importance of preparation
and take it very seriously so that we can give our clients their best chance of
success.
More likely than not, you will be awarded joint custody in
California. This is where both parents
are allowed a set amount of time with the children and can both be involved in
the decision making process. This
includes deciding where they will go to school, their religious upbringing,
what doctors they see and how they are treated.
Basically, every major decision must be made after agreeing. Many divorce couples find it difficult to
have this level of discussion and come to an agreement. When this is the case, you are best served by
having a mediator assist with the negotiations.
If your day in court has come and gone, you can always have
your custody arrangement re-examined. If
you have new facts or the situation has changed, a judge can review this aspect
of your case to determine whether or not it warrants reconsideration. For example, if your job situation has
changed or the children are significantly older, the current plan may no longer
make sense. If you want to change your custody arrangement, this is called a
modification.
The most important thing to remember with a modification is
that it requires something to have changed.
It isn’t enough to change your mind.
The facts and circumstances need to be different in either you or your
ex’s life.
If you are getting a divorce, or are thinking about a
modification, give us a call. We are happy to assist you and will help you to
navigate the choppy waters of a custody battle so that you and your children
receive the best possible outcome.
